![]() ![]() * Human taxi driver, connected and all, played by a guy * Troll lawyer, communication specialist, female chara played by me, also DMing * Orc sports coach/ bodyguard, male chara played by a guy that was also DMing * Elven university teacher, mage, male chara played by a girl that was also DMing We had started from the beginning with the trope of beeing mostly pacifists, hidden behind the disguise of a very offical detective agency. everything went wrong when New Gamer ( I will call him NG from now on) started to play, and DM, for our table. Each time we were DM our charas would become NPC and be either not really used or just called if needed, avoiding God complex and such.īut everything went wrong when the Fire nation. 3 players/ DM, 2 players exclusively playing ( too shy too try DMing) but we didn't mind because already with 3 of us ( 2 girls, 1 guy) and taking turns we were guaranteed a good, balanced table. If they are unwilling to keep your information private, you get to decide what to share.First time posting here, long time player and as it has happened so so many times before, this will include a story of rape and such.įor quite some times we had been playing Shadowrun, round robbing between us to DM and having a lot of fun. “Please don’t tell anyone about what happened to me without my permission.” “It is important to me that I get to decide who to tell about what happened to me. You can ask any support person, friend or family member: However, you can make your wishes about privacy known to them. “Can you keep our conversations confidential? Are there any exceptions?”įriends and family do not have any legal duty to keep what you tell them confidential or private. You can ask any helping professional or organization: However, they may be required to share information in some circumstances, for example child abuse and neglect or threats of suicide or homicide. This means they generally cannot share information about you with other people without your permission. Professionals like counselors, therapists, and attorneys have rules about confidentiality. Michigan law and professional rules of conduct make your conversation with some professionals confidential. Feel free to ask any hotline worker, counselor, therapist, organization or friend or family member about their ability to keep your conversation either confidential and private. Would you like to reach out to them?”Ĭonfidentiality and privacy are likely to be very important to you. Right now, I don’t have the ability to support you and help you process your feelings, but I do know there’s a statewide hotline and sexual assault service programs where workers are trained to support family and friends of survivors. “I know this is a lot to take in and you might have some strong feelings about it. Your friend or family member may have strong emotions in response to your story.Please think about what you are comfortable with and tell the person directly if it’s okay to touch, hug or sit close to you. It is often simply human nature to want to touch or hug someone we love or care about who is hurting. Because of the assault, some survivors prefer not to be touched.“I thought I was ready to share this, but now I’m not so sure. If at some point it doesn’t feel right or you begin to feel unsafe, you have the right to stop sharing. You are in charge of whether or not you’d like to continue sharing your story.Please be patient with me and listen to what I am able to tell you.” “I’m not comfortable sharing that with you right now. If the person asks for information you’re not ready share, you could say something like, You get to decide how many details you’d like to tell your friend or family member.It is important for you to surround yourself with people who can support you on your healing journey. Some family and friends are not willing or capable of being helpful. They may also be able to provide emotional support and help you connect with services. They may help you feel safe just by being near or listening. For some survivors of sexual assault, family and friends can be very helpful during this time of healing. It takes a lot of courage to reach out to someone else and tell them your story. ![]()
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